Human Relationship

Everyday I worked in the office thinking this isn't the job that I dreamt off.. Today I am having another thoughts... my own life.... Why do i say that? Well, 2 hours ago I stumbled on shots of 2 interviews with "Ming Dao" a Taiwanese actor. I recalled my first impression of him.. Many years ago , I saw him hosting "Mao Xian Wang" he looked like a "Ga ki"(japanese word of kid) that has no experience hosting a dangerous documentary on lives around the world.. After that I forgotten totally about him.... Then I caught him again in "Wang Zi bian Qing Hua" He has turned from an ignorant snob to a mature man that oozes charisma in that drama.. However impression on him is only skin-deep... and nothing more.. until I saw these 2 interviews on youtube. It shows how he has turned from an ignorant market boy into a snob documentary host to finally an ernst hardworking actor... Somehow when I look at this interview, it made me realise that many people changes over time and most people who are successful in life normally mature by encountering harsh experience of reality. This makes me wonder how narrow minded most Singaporeans are. We lived in a world of comfort and holds a stable job..Yet all that we know is to grumble about life and how better it can get better if we are not doing this job. Life seem to be restless and no meaning. How bosses seem to be always earning good pay and enjoy good life... Actually the definition of good life in our country.. is rather superficial. What the definition of good life exactly? Is it good pay and able to get what you want without the need to worry about pay? Look at these actors.. they are faced with tons of hardship, their family are poor sellers in market. Their parents owe others money, yet they never grumble and give up on life. Instead this drove them to work harder.. I really admired actors or actress that are ernst and hardworking. They are down to earth and not pretentious..HOwever , all these phrase of their lives can be easily forgotten when they are tempted with luxurious items and fame... I admired actors like Jiro and Ming Dao not because they are good -looking is that they have learnt things through the hard way yet they have never complaint that life is not what they way or that they are in such predicament because god is not good to them. Sometimes I wonder , why do people in my country give up so easily. Why are they so quick to condemn life is back because world is unfair? Imagine if Jiro has given up after his contract with 2 recording companies got null even before he is able to record an album . Where will he be now? Looking at all these, I wonder if i should change my thinking and think about how i can make my own life better or continue to grumble about life till i turn 80 and complained that my hubby make me waste my youth?...
Let hope that there is a better tomorrow for myself and so the stars that I admire, may their preservance heart never wavierd and that the success they get in life is not only fame but also eventually won someone who knows how to appreciate them and can spend lives with them till it gone...
(Click on the title to view mingdao interview on youtube) Remember to watch the later one where he matures...